Monday, 19 March 2018

DISABILITY AND EMPLOYMENT DISCRIMINATION


Hey guys!

It is Monday and I am at work. This is not the case for thousands of qualified, trained and eligible adults of working age who live with one form of disability or the other in Nigeria. This is really sad just thinking about it. 

A lot go through my mind everyday and my heart goes out to this individuals who really want to work, be independent and pay their bills without depending on anyone but, can't find work because they are being discriminated because of their challenge. 

For those of us that do have jobs, we sometimes appear invincible in the workplace. Some employers feel they are doing you a lot of good by having you work for them therefore, it is a struggle to get paid premium for the job you do. 

This discrimination is a huge problem for people who live with evident physical impairment like wheelchair users, the blind, other aid users, people with facial disfigurement or those considered "ugly" or unpleasant to look at. 

We all know that employment discrimination is illegal. There are laws against it written on paper, companies, government establishments and organizations put out " equal opportunity employer"disclaimers but we all know where it all ends right?

People have been denied jobs based on their physical disability and those who eventually find one, can barely access the work environment due to barriers and sometimes, the environment can be a hostile place to be in. 

Monday, 5 March 2018

YOU ARE ADORABLE: OWN YOUR BEAUTY.


One of my best friends recently gave birth to a baby girl. She and her husband named their little princess "Adorable" ..... 

When she told me her daughters name, I rolled my eyes lol.... 'Na which person pekin wey no dey adorable' No I am not jealous .... lol ...  

Thinking about it now, I feel like we should all name our kids names that they can affirm to themselves and actually feel the positivity and energy in their name.

You see, we live in a world where we are being sold things from different channels to 'fix' what was not 'broken'. We are told and convinced that we are flawed and seemingly 'imperfect' and needs to be 'fixed'. 

Sadly, we find ourselves comparing ourselves to others rather than appreciate the life and the things we have. Are we really to be blamed? It's really difficult staying sane when all the various media outlets sell us are picture perfect beings. 

The truth is there is no amount of "perfection" that can make you happy with yourself if you are not already happy with yourself.

Find a way to appreciate and build a relationship with the parts of your body you have been taught to hate.

Focus on embracing, appreciating and loving the body you have because you are adorable. 

Own your beauty!

Love and Light.

Sharon xxx 

PERFECTION IS TAILOR MADE

I visited a friend during the festive period and she offered to serve me rice of which I obliged.  The question that followed made me sm...