Before you go Valentine shopping read this.

Hi guys it's the season of love and everyone is going crazing, doing crazy things and considering and harboring some crazy thoughts too lol.... Okay! hmmmm before I continue, let me say this.... I love LOVE. I mean love is a beautiful thing and the feeling of love is out of this world when you meet the "right one" for you.

This post is not about gift suggestion(s) but about things to think about and possibly make aright before you go gift shopping for your "Le Boo" "Bea" as we call it these days.... So here we go

• Is your le boo / bea a priority? If your partner, boyfriend, wife, husband is not a priority to you, forget it if you like buy him/her the world, they will still feel same way as they are feeling right now. 
• Over-familiarity: Is this an issue in your relationship? do you or your partner feel neglected in the relationship? are you unappreciative of the little things your partner does or are you feeling unappreciated? Over-familiarity is a kill joy in any given relationship. Stop taking your partner for granted. No amount of gift will erase the feeling of negligence. You may need to have a genuine heart to heart appreciation talk with your partner before the gifts  come in.
• Anger: Are you truly happy in your relationship? Do you have hidden anger? a grudge that is eating you up? You have to let your partner know this feeling exist and for what reason because your valentine gift will not take care of the hurt you feel inside.
• Selfishness: Hmmmm there is not much to say here. Is your partner selfish or are you selfish in your relationship? Do you have to always put two and two together before doing anything for your partner? 
• Responsibility: Do you take responsibility for your actions or is your ego bigger than your head thereby getting in the way of things? Taking responsibility for your actions in any given relationship makes a lot of things easier.

 You have to settle all of this and more before you go gift shopping for bea. Gifts are good because they give momentary joy and happiness. However, it is important for everyone to first of all deal with any impending issues such as the ones listed above before approaching a gift shop. Treat and take care of the heart first before throwing gifts at it.

I wish you and your's a happy valentine celebration.

Sharonxxx