WHERE WILL YOU SPEND 31st NIGHT?

Hiya everyone.... I know by now many of you will be considering, arguing and deliberating with yourself, spouse, friends and family about where and how to spend 31st night. Here is the thing!!! a lot of things go down every 31st night. For some, it is the only time they get to go to church, open their bible and pray. For others, they will hit the club hard, do some bottles just to get high. While some will just sit back to complain, worry and wallow in regret. So I ask you my friend; where will you spend your new year eve?

MY 2015 TARGET....

Hey fam!!!! how are you guys doing today? hope your day wasn't so busy....... me? I had a pretty busy day.. uhmmm!! I think I did my last shopping for the year today, I cleaned, cleared out and also did some washing too. Okay I do have a confession just a little... I got a little help lol... my kid sis "B" was around so she helped me with a few stuff. That said!! while I was doing some chores, I kept thinking about some of the things I really would love to do come 2015.

MOTHER'S PLEASE RE-THINK!!!

Hey fam!!! how are you guys doing? Fine I guess.... Wow we have two days to 2015 everybody!!! as 2014 is rolling by I think its time some mothers starts re-thinking on the way they care and look after their child/ren. It is however sad that some mother's neglect their children for whatever reason. when I say kids I mean kids not teenagers or young adults who can at least look after themselves.

#BRINGBACKOURGIRLS.....

It was on the 25th of December, I was having I was having lunch at home with my family. After a while, I excused myself to go have a wee. On my way out back into the yard to join my family at the table, I paused for a while just to take another look at everyone at the table. While standing there leaning against the wall, I noticed that my dad was the only male at the table. The rest of us were female...... the female group comprised of my grandma, my mum and my sisters.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!.....

Hey people!!! Hope you had an amazing christmas celebration? I also hope you spent quality and lovely time with your family, friends and wellwishers. I had a blast celebrating with my family...... This is my first  christmas in Nigeria in four years!!! yes FOUR!!!.... Okay back to the post.....

I just want to say a big thank you to you yes YOU!!!.... Thank you for taking out time to click that button, for reading my not so perfect post, for laughing hard,  for your precious time, energy and for always stopping by time after time to see what's up here on my blog.

MERRY CHRISTMAS PEOPLE!!!

Hey people!!! it's finally here..... I mean CHRISTMAS!!!.... Happy christmas everybody form my humble self to you. Wow like play like play this year will roll by isn't God good? Wow just wow....

Okay here's my christmas message to all of you.

May the christmas spirit enlighten you, may it dispel every darkness and darkness from your life,

As you celebrate, may you and your family be blessed,

STAYING HEALTHY THIS SEASON........

Okay guys!!! I know many of you are already getting pised with this harmattan weather SOWI..... I was sick just for a few days last week.... it wasn't funny at all because people kept telling..... Don't worry it's the weather. I was sneezing, coughing and catarrh was dripping down my nose like no mans business. my whole body was just doing my hibernate, shutdown, sleep and keep sleeping ah!!! Even doctor told me Sharon don't worry you will be fine it's the weather change.

WE DON'T JUST NEED CHARITY!!!

Hey fam!!!! how are you all doing? good I guess.... It's a day to christmas.... yeah!!! I hope your ready as in ready ready..... OK... we all know the season we are in... it's a season of lots of enjoyment, merriment, giving as well as charity. A lot of "giving back" is happening right now and our celebrities, rich men and women are constantly on the look out to get to the nearest orphanage, hospitals, old peoples homes as well as disabled homes to donate whatever they have.

BATTLING WITH THE BOTTLE?

Hello everyone, how una dey? So today I decided to do a post on alcohol. Hmmm what's the reason for this post Sharon you ask?..... I saw something today that made me cringe just a little bit so I thought to share this with you  just incase anyone is battling with the bottle here. We all know that life is full of ups and downs, pressures from all corners pushes people into certain things they ought not to be involved in. A lot of people (both young and old) have been driven to cling on things they feel can give them relief and peace of mind due to pressure from work, relationships, economic wahala, career, children, LIFE!!!

THERE IS STRENGTH IN DISABILITY..... IT ISN'T ALL WEAKNESS.

"It's time to show people that disability has ability in it. People look at a disability as a weakness but it should be seen as a strength". -RJ Mitte.

Hey people!! so I found this inspiring story and thought I should share.... be inspired.

I have cerebral palsy (CP) but I've never let it hold me back. Thinking back maybe this was a lesson I learnt from my granddad, who was a Marine. When I was growing up, I was never allowed to say the words "no", "can't", "won't" - it was always yes, yes sir!

MANAGE YOUR MIND... MINDFULLY.

What will stop you from achieving your goals, purpose and potentials is your own negative thoughts. Your ability to properly manage what goes in and out of your mind, will set you to the path of breaking through your limitations. You see, in todays world, we often get to hear about financial management, time management, organizational management, waste management and even weight control and management but, we don't get to hear about MIND MANAGEMENT. 

THIS COULD BE ANYONE.... YINKA AYEFELE'S STORY.

Hey fam!!! I know it's been a while.... sorry you know the season we are in right now eh? e no easy for me at all. Anyway, hope this post finds us all well. A few days ago (12th December to be precise) popular Yoruba singer/songwriter Yinka Ayefele shared photos of the car accident that crippled him. In his words, he said REJOICE AND THANK GOD WITH ME. The journey started 17 years ago, It was on Friday December 12th 1997. on my way to Abeokuta where I had that ghastly motor accident. it was indeed MY TURNING POINT. "ODUNMBAKU" I will forever be grateful to my Lord. He went further to thank his fans for their love, support and encouragement. when there is life there is hope he said. 

WITH A GRATEFUL HEART...

Hey people!!! how una dey today?... I am writing this post not knowing where to start or exactly what to say..... that's how full my heart is. I am grateful for a lot of things and looking back, the feeling of gratitude envelops me. The year is rolling by slowly and as it does, it's only wise to count your blessings..... yes count them!!!... you will be stunned, amazed and overwhelmed at the goodness of God in your life. Nothing is more honourable than a grateful heart......

LET IT GO!!!....

Hey people!!! how are you all doing? hope you all stated the new week in good spirit.... I feel really good people I don't know why to be honest with you..... #inmyBritishacentlol..... OK!! You'all know we have a few days more into the new year right? I have been on a personal journey for quite sometime now... I have been doing a lot of FORGIVING, soul searching, getting rid of non-essential things that have become baggage in my life. Aside from that I doing a lot of clearing out as well..... Am clearing out unfriendly friends, relatives, associates, clothes.... in fact, everything that falls into the non-essential category. 

CONFIDENCE!!! IT'S A JOURNEY....

Confidence is the sexist thing anyone can wear......

Hey people!!! hope your weekend is going as planned? Today I am going to talk a little about CONFIDENCE!!!. This ten letter word can make or mar you if not properly used.  So when do you need confidence? Everyday of your life I would say. In this generation, no individual gets out of bed and leaves their home without some level of confidence. Of course you will need one wherever you are headed in today's world where you're being judged even before you are heard.

REMEMBERING AN ICON.....

Remembering an Icon, a legend, leader and a rare gem in Africa and around the world. Today marks one year former South African president Nelson Mandela's death. Mandela is a man that fought and paid the price for what he believed. As an advocate, he followed through not with hate, but with love teaching and living it. Africa and the world has lost an Icon. Madiba your memories lives and it will ever be green in our memories. Continue to Rest in Peace.... 

MEET INSPIRATIONAL AND SENSATIONAL MS HABEN GIRMA!!!

Hey people, I can't see this and not share with you.... Haba!!! there are inspirational people in this world ooo hehehe... So today I decided to make a little research on a particular area that interests me and "BOOM" I saw this amazing video of Haben Girma. WOW!!! It might interest you to know that mis Haben here is blind and deaf.... she has what I would like to call "DD" double disability. However, she has not allowed any of her disability to stop her. She is a Harvard trained lawyer. She serves as a Skadden Fellowship Attorney at Disability Rights Advocates, a non-profit legal center dedicated to protecting the rights of persons with disability around the country America. She is honoured at the White House as a Champion of Change.

PARENT'S WITH SPECIAL NEEDS KID(S).....

Hey Fam!!! hope you all are having a good day? I found this very interesting article online today while looking for articles for something am researching on. Parents of kid(s) with special needs gto through a lot..... especially "the mums"... I can't even begin to tell you guys my mums story (story for another day). Please read the story and accounts of these "super mums" and be encouraged. You are not alone in the struggle to protect your loved ones.

Jane McCready is used to her 10-year-old son being gawped at "as if he were a circus freak" but she will never be reconciled to it. "Children are one thing, they don't know any better. But these are adults. They look at Johnny and their mouths fall open and they just stare. And I think: didn't anyone ever tell them how rude that is?"

Johnny has severe autism and learning disabilities. "He looks like any other child, but he behaves oddly – for example, he might sit there banging two toys together – and he sometimes makes strange noises." Especially when he was younger, he might have a massive meltdown – at the supermarket checkout, for instance. "I'd feel 300 pairs of eyes on us – all watching us, all judging us for being disruptive and difficult," says Jane.

INTERNATIONAL DAY OF PERSONS WITH DISABILITY......

Hey people, I know this post is coming a little bit late that's because I waited to see bow buzzing and attention grabbing the issues of disability can get. All day I have followed blogs, newspapers both print and digital just to get a sense of how important today is to us especially in Nigeria. To say I am surprised is an understatement. World Aids day was on the 1st of December, we can all testify to the fact that it got a wide publicity, you could see it everywhere you went on the day that something an important issue is being talked about. In fact the reporting was off the roof. Campaign groups were everywhere wearing branded T-shirts with red ribbons, even churches and schools were not left out of the awareness champaign. We saw people living with HIV/AIDS on covers of magazines, newspapers and blogs sharing their stories.

HEBREWS 13:5....

Yes you read right... How una dey my beautiful people? see eh! as the year is wrapping up, a lot of people have different things up on their mind. The truth is that the year is doing it's job oo. you know what they say: Whatever has a beginning ......... so that out of the way. People no matter how you feel, are feeling or will feel before this year runs out just know that the one who is up there is watching over you. 

TODAY IS WORLD AIDS DAY!!! LOVE DON'T JUDGE....

Hey people!!! Today is world AIDS Day... Yes it is. It is a day set aside to give people worldwide the opportunity to come together to create awareness, educate, campaign, support and honour people living with the disease and help fight against HIV/AIDS. It's basically about doing something to mark the day. You don't have to be a celebrity to join in this fight...... let's not leave everything to celebrities in our society because this is a fight every individual should be involved in.

YEAH!!! IT'S DECEMBER!!! DANCING SHOKI... SEKEM...

WOW! WOW!!WOW!!! It's December guys who can beat that huh? just like yesterday.... how time fly people... I am bursting with thanksgiving... my heart is full of joy and gladness for making it this far. Hmmm you guys won't understand!!.. Where will I start? where? can somebody tell me? Wow.